Jordan Fletcher’s “About Jill”: Story Behind the Song

They figured out pretty quickly that they could use that title to write about a woman finding her way.

“He said, ‘You know that everybody knows Jack, but they don’t know jack about Jill,’” Collins recalls. “That got me. He started playing a little guitar part, and then I started writing that first verse.”

The nursery rhyme gave them an obvious starting point, and they altered the rhyme just enough to change the story’s direction: “Jack and Jill had time to kill.” They make out on a back road, and things develop quickly: by the end of line three, she’s pregnant, he decides he’s “too young for kids,” and he leaves it to “Jill to choose.” It’s a subtle hint that she considered an abortion (they wrote that line three months before the Supreme Court’s Dobbs decision stripped many women of that choice). They broached the topic so gracefully that the controversy is all but eliminated.

“I think that that was important,” Collins says. “It was, you know, ‘Let’s lightly discuss a really hard topic, and let’s empower Jill.’”

The remainder of the verse and the chorus paint Jack as a playboy who eventually ends up living an easy life with a girl he meets in college. And it’s at the end of that chorus that the hook makes its debut: “Everybody knows Jack/ But they don’t know jack about Jill.”

Musically, “About Jill” disguises the serious nature of the story, using a light chord progression and breezy tempo, maintained by a strong upstroke, owing in part to Fletcher’s reggae appreciation.

Verse two contrasts Jill’s struggles with Jack’s good fortune. She works two jobs, drives a hand-me-down car and can’t look at her boy without seeing Jack’s reflection. But she still loves the kid. “She has a very, very difficult situation,” Fletcher says. “This turns out to be a lot of people’s story, and I didn’t realize that. It’s a story that wasn’t really told often.”

The bridge reiterated her ability to stay positive, concluding that life had given her lemons, but “she makes damn good lemonade.”

“You can’t predict what life’s gonna hand you,” Collins says. “It’s all a choice, how you choose to deal with things. Life by no means is easy for anyone, and if you’re a single mom or a single parent, you do the best that you can for your kid, and you got to make lemonade.”

Collins sang on the work tape at the end of the day as they considered several women – including Lainey Wilson, Ella Langley and Miranda Lambert – as potential matches. “About Jill” received good feedback, but no cuts. Meanwhile, Fletcher posted a back-porch video of the song a week after they wrote it, with the sounds of birds and traffic in the background. He finally decided to record it himself for the Classic EP.

“It honestly is sweeter coming from a guy, because it just seems more objective,” he reasons. “I could definitely see how a female would feel like it was a man-hating song, but if a guy’s singing it, it’s just a very observant song.”

Producer Austin Nivarel (Jelly Roll, Austin Snell) identified “About Jill” on first listen as a song they needed to cut, and he and Fletcher agreed that it should be presented as simply as possible. “We wanted it to just feel so real and raw,” Nivarel says.

They accomplished that by cutting it as a guitar/vocal track at the Black River studio complex on Nashville’s Music Row. Engineer Nick Autry set up two mics in the center of the studio and a couple more placed elsewhere to capture room noise. But after one or two test passes, Nivarel had the room mics shut down, deciding instead to make it authentic to Fletcher’s back-porch demos.

Fletcher played about two feet away from the mics, tracking the guitar at the same time as his vocal, which meant that his voice and the supporting instrument both appeared on every track. The performance itself had to be right, since Nivarel was unable to do much tinkering later – if he were to boost the low notes in Fletcher’s voice, for example, it would also boost the bass in the guitar notes.

“Since the vocal mic is picking up the guitar, you get what you get,” Nivarel says. “You can’t perfect performances. You can’t do too much to edit something like that. So everything the listener hears is very real.”

Fletcher also cut 3-5 minutes of environmental sound from his back porch, and the resulting atmospherics are used to present the singer even more authentically.

“About Jill” provides the clearest picture of Fletcher’s vocal sound and artistic sensitivity. But it also has increased value in the immediate aftermath of the election. Within days, misogynists began posting crude “Your body, my choice” threats on some women’s social media pages. As a result, “About Jill” rises from a well-crafted song to an important one about decency and real American values.

“I want to give light to it,” Fletcher says. “It just tells the positivity and the strength of this woman that [does what] so many women do daily. It’s the side of the coin people don’t want to look at, but it is right there.”