Paul Wesley and Spouse Ines de Ramon Quietly Separate After 3 Years of Marriage

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Paul Wesley and spouse Ines de Ramon have known as it quits greater than three years after tying the knot.

A rep for the couple tells PEOPLE solely “they’ve separated” and have been dwelling aside for a number of months.

“The choice to separate is mutual and occurred 5 months in the past. They request privateness at the moment,” the rep says.

The Vampire Diaries alum, 40, was first romantically linked to Ramon, 29, a jewellery skilled, in June 2018 once they had been seen holding arms after a dinner date in New York Metropolis. They made their relationship Instagram official the following month whereas at a Montauk wedding ceremony with mates Jessica Szohr and Nina Dobrev.

Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Paul Wesley and Ines De Ramon

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The pair was later noticed in what seemed to be matching wedding ceremony bands throughout one other outing in February 2019. Dobrev, 33, seemingly confirmed the information throughout a podcast look that June when she referred to Ramon as Wesley’s “spouse.”

“We hang around rather a lot. We’re actually good mates. I really like his spouse. It is so humorous how time modifications every thing as a result of I by no means thought he can be considered one of my finest mates,” Dobrev mentioned on the time.

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Wesley spoke to PEOPLE for the 2020 Sexiest Man Alive concern about quarantine and life at dwelling with Ramon and their canine Greg in the course of the COVID-19 pandemic.

“I am in a lucky place the place I used to be capable of take a break, and it was so necessary for me to do it,” Wesley mentioned. “For me, I reset. I recalibrated. Type of realized what was necessary to me, reprioritized my life.”