When Richie Sambora Made an Ambiguous Exit From Bon Jovi

In typical New Jersey vogue, Bon Jovi prevented a public brouhaha when Richie Sambora left the band on April 2, 2013. However the wounds have been nonetheless obvious.

The information arrived abruptly on a Tuesday evening, shortly earlier than Bon Jovi was scheduled to carry out on the Scotiabank Saddledome in Calgary. “As a consequence of private points, Richie Sambora is not going to be acting on this upcoming leg,” the group wrote on its web site. “All exhibits will go on as scheduled.”

Within the days that adopted, less-than-credible sources began rumors that these “private points” needed to do with Sambora’s consuming, for which he’d entered rehab in 2011. However Jon Bon Jovi promptly squashed the rumors about his former songwriting companion.

“I feel Richie’s doing all proper, [but] I have not spoken to him,” he later informed The Austin American-Statesman. “We have been shocked. It was 3:30 on present day on Tuesday and we obtained a telephone name that he would not be there. It is a private matter.” He implored, for good measure, “do not imagine what you learn on TMZ as a result of it is the furthest factor from the reality.”

Bon Jovi continued touring in assist of then-new album What About Now with former Triumph guitarist Phil X filling in for Sambora. (He was promoted to a full-time member in 2016.) In a November 2013 interview with Australia’s At the moment present, Sambora attributed his abrupt exit to desirous to spend extra time together with his then-15-year-old daughter, Ava, whom he fathered with actress and ex-wife Heather Locklear.

Watch Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora on the 1989 MTV Video Music Awards

“I feel folks do not perceive precisely what meaning,” Sambora mentioned of the pains of touring on Bon Jovi’s scale. “You aren’t getting to come back dwelling. There’s an enormous sacrifice in that. I missed plenty of my daughter’s life.”

He reiterated these ideas in a 2014 interview with Lust for Life journal: “I simply wished to have some calmer waters and do one thing for myself, however the Bon Jovi machine needed to transfer on. I mentioned I wished a break. We had simply completed one other tour, I had simply removed a foul behavior and was simply having fun with my time with my daughter. I then envisioned a yr filled with different priorities. I wished to make my very own music, be at dwelling extra and do a number of exhibits with my very own band. That was simply not accepted. I might select – take part or give up. That’s arduous while you share 30 years of joys and sorrows.”

By then, Sambora had begun relationship Australian guitarist Orianthi, and the 2 shaped the musical duo RSO with plans to launch music. Nonetheless, he insisted he cherished his musical ex-partner and anticipated a return to Bon Jovi. “There is no such thing as a dangerous blood with me now,” Sambora added. I am simply taking the steps I wish to – no, should take. What occurs subsequent? We’ll see. I completely take pleasure in my [RSO] exhibits after which we’ll file the album. So I wish to tour with it quietly. Not a 14-month tour by greater than 50 international locations. Simply touring, taking part in after which being dwelling for some time — with Orianthi, as a result of she makes all the pieces further intense!”

Bon Jovi’s namesake frontman additionally insisted he nonetheless cherished Sambora, although he sounded notably chillier when broaching the topic. “He give up. He is gone. No arduous emotions,” Jon informed Showbiz 411 in November 2014. “Being in a band is not a life sentence.”

For some time, that appeared to be the top of it. Bon Jovi continued to launch albums — 2015’s Burning Bridges, 2016’s This Home Is Not for Sale and 2020’s 2020 — and mount huge world excursions. In the meantime, RSO launched their debut EP Rise in 2017, adopted by the full-length Radio Free America in 2018.

Then destiny and music business insiders introduced the star-crossed Jersey boys again collectively in 2018 when Bon Jovi was inducted into the Rock & Roll Corridor of Fame, and Sambora and former bassist Alec John Such joined the present lineup for a brisk greatest-hits set.

Watch Bon Jovi Carry out ‘Livin’ on a Prayer’ on the Rock & Roll Corridor of Fame

The Rock Corridor reunion inevitably sparked dialogue about Sambora’s full-time reinstatement, however he performed it cool with the press. “We’ll see. You by no means say by no means,” Sambora informed Rolling Stone on the time. “It isn’t in any speedy future plan, that is for certain. It is simply not. I actually wish to get this RSO factor off the bottom. I am having a ball.”

Two years later, Bon Jovi intimated that Sambora nonetheless wasn’t match to return to the band. “There’s not a day that goes by that I do not want that Richie had his life collectively and was nonetheless within the band,” he informed Rock Antenne. Sambora responded incredulously, insisting he was “the happiest dude on the block,” and later joked that a part of his deal in Bon Jovi was “to close the fuck up.”

Apart from these passive-aggressive barbs, there appeared to be little motion towards reconciliation — till late 2022, when rumors started swirling that Sambora would rejoin Bon Jovi for the 2023 Glastonbury competition.

“It is a risk. We’re speaking a bit,” Sambora informed Metro in November 2022. A number of months later, he informed Absolute Radio, “I do not know when Jon’s going to get his voice collectively and [when the Bon Jovi reunion is] going to occur, however we have now to get on the market and do it for the followers, actually. I really feel a second obligation.”

In the meantime, Bon Jovi followers have been taking the band’s lyrics to coronary heart and protecting the religion.