‘RHOC’ Shannon Beador on Why She’ll Never Be Tamra’s Friend

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Shannon Beador claims a reconciliation with Tamra Judge is not on the agenda.

While discussing her falling out with her former friend and Real Housewives of Orange County castmate, Shannon, 60, accused Tamra, 56, of painting an inaccurate narrative about her drinking, staging a friendship with Alexis Bellino, 47, for the show, and more as she also spoke of her bloody post-DUI photo.

“I don’t [think we’ll be friends again] because I now can look back and see pretty much every season that I’ve been in with Tamra, there’s always an issue that she has with me,” Shannon told Us Weekly earlier this month. “Either I did something or didn’t do something, and it’s OK, we don’t need to be friends then. She says she walks on eggshells around me. I’m sorry that you feel that way, but I walked on eggshells around her.”

“I was feeling like I had to prove to her that I was a good friend, and that’s not healthy for me. I’m making healthy choices right now,” she continued.

According to Shannon, her friendship with Tamra came to an end “five days after BravoCon” in November 2023. At the time, they were in the midst of their Tres Amigas tour.

“We had two shows in Phoenix. Someone ordered me a drink that first night and he said, ‘You want me to order your drink?’ And I go, ‘Yeah,’” Shannon shared. “I walked into my hotel room that night [and] I said, ‘Shannon, you can never do that again because people are going to think you’re sneaking.’ And so [the next night,] when we went out to get a bite to eat after, I ordered the drink.”

Continuing on, Shannon revealed that she later accepted a drink from a man.

“So, it’s the planting seeds that aren’t accurate that [is] hurtful. I don’t know what Tamra’s agenda is either. What did I do to you and who made you my judge and jury about what I need in my life?” she wondered.

While Tamra accused Shannon of “sneaking” alcohol at their Tres Amigas events, Shannon denied having done so.

“What bothers me too is that in my past with Tamra, there would be inconsistent stories about me that had maybe a nugget of truth, but there was embellishment around it [and] I would just say nothing in deference to the friendship,” Shannon explained. “I feel as though she said things to make it appear as though [she was concerned about me]. I think she said, ‘I said things she didn’t want to hear.’ OK, I heard things that you said and I took them into account, and I did what I felt was best for me and I know that that was a good choice because I know how I feel right now.”

In addition to the untrue claims Tamra reportedly made against Shannon, Shannon said her “big ego” and friendship with Alexis, who is dating her ex-boyfriend, John Janssen, 60, were a factor in the end of their friendship.

“I said that she had a big ego, which got back to her, and yes, she does. And I’ve said, ‘Well, you do. Yeah, and?’” Shannon wondered. “I was upset with her when John first met Alexis that she was commenting on Alexis’ photos. It’s like, ‘What are you doing? What are you doing?’ And so now they’re big buddies. None of it makes sense except that maybe it’s just a little bit of overproduction and too much story-focused.”

As for her friendship with Vicki Gunvalson, 62, Shannon confirmed they are still close — and feeling similarly about their former amiga.

“She feels a lot of the same things that I feel,” Shannon said of Vicki.

Although Tamra quit their live shows, Shannon said she and Vicki were “having so much fun” touring.

“I’m single, I don’t have anyone at home. So, we’re traveling the country with the ‘Shannon and Vicky Show,’” she explained. “It’s a show about friendship, [and] it’s silly fun. I’m enjoying it because [I’m] performing in front of people that are there to see you because they want to, and there’s no drama. It’s just love.”

During another interview, Shannon admitted that she didn’t remember taking a selfie after her DUI and hit-and-run accident in September 2023 — and was “shocked” when she came across the image.

“That was really traumatic for me,” she revealed to PEOPLE on July 19. “As you can see, I was injured pretty badly and when I looked at it, it almost felt like I was looking at someone who wasn’t me … I didn’t want to see myself that way, and I didn’t want anyone else to see me that way either. I honestly thought I’d never show it to anyone.”

But she did. In fact, she showed it to Heather Dubrow, 55, amid production on season 18.

“It was a big step for me to take that,” she explained. “When someone Googles my name probably for the rest of my life, that’s what they’ll see: my face, covered in blood, from the night that easily marked the lowest point of my entire life. But I wanted to be able to speak of everything that happened.”

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“I’m not asking for sympathy, and I’m not saying, ‘Oh, feel sorry for me, look at that blood.’ I’m not,” she continued. “But I think when you see that picture, you’re like, ‘Oh, wow, this was bad.’ And showing it was the only way anyone would understand that.”

After being sentenced to three years of probation, 40 hours of community service, and an alcohol class, Shannon said that when it comes to her DUI, she’s just glad she didn’t injure anyone but herself.

“I deserved to get hurt,” she stated. “I made a very stupid choice. I could have killed someone. And part of my therapy has been trying to move past that guilt and shame. You say to yourself, ‘I could have killed someone… but I didn’t.’ So I don’t want it to appear that I’m taking any of this lightly, because there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about it. But I didn’t hurt someone, and I’m grateful for that.”

“Does this act define my life? It defines a part of it,” Shannon added. “And it’s going to define a new chapter: the beginning of a new chapter in my life.”

The Real Housewives of Orange County season18 airs Thursdays at 9/8c on Bravo.